Ankit saxena ji from Pune Asked gurdev Shri harivansh pranam at your Lotus feet guruji I'm very afraid of losing my dear ones I am afraid of because of the past incidents maharashi how can I get out of this fear(How to get over the fear of losing someone's love By Premanand Ji Maharaj).
Premanand Ji Maharaj Says: Who is ours mammy you don't know your mother's spiritual form only the body isn't it bodies did not exist before and for sure no one's body will remain so in between whatever time and dayses are destined will remain now you can swear at God or say jai jai.
He doesn't care this office is for a limited time you will stay here for the allotted time and that's it and this office is such when your time is over immediately you'll be evicted and office will be destroyed just destroyed.
This is a government building and the first action will be its destruction isn't it when the office is transferred the office is destroyed first it has to go the same thought came to me in childhood when I was in grade five.
I thought my mother will die my father will die too no one is permanent they will all die because of some previous sanskaras I could not be satisfied who should I think is mine everyone here will die at any moment there should be someone who I can love and they can always stay with me.
Then I saw only one path only God is mine at 13 I left home and I ran away towards God so if this is troubling you that no one is really mine I will be separated from them they know that only Shama Shyam yours catch hold of them and you will never be separated in countless lives.
Because they are indestructible and so are you your body is destructible but you are indestructible if you consider shama shyam is yours whatever relationship you want they're very merciful some consider them sister daughter some their mistress.
Some think the Lord is their friend some father some husband in Kanta mood gopies think he's their beloved so they're so merciful any relationship can be established if you consider them yours then the fear of losing dear ones will go away and no one here is ours it's a dream.
Who knows how long the body will live whether you will step out of the gate or not is not guaranteed if we will be able to take the next word or not is not guaranteed heart attack and gone a bubble of water can burst anytime so who can you love in ignorance people say we will be together Life After Life who relationship they say you and I but you don't know yourself or them and how how are you related you only know the body the body is here for a few years it'll be gone so what relationship you're lying isn't it they say we're related Life After Life The Life After Life relationship is only with God and you not the bodies.
The body cannot be related Life After Life in previous lives you had mother, father, wife, kids & family we don't remember just in this life you were in the mother's womb for nine months do you remember your condition no we don't then how can we say someone is ours no one can be ours when you realize this you will become a true devotee but it won't stick when someone Embraces you and says I love you you'll forget everything and think oh someone is mine and when someone betrays you by call time call doesn't spare anyone.
Then you will say God you're heartless I found someone and you stole them this is what happens right this is ignorance it's a game of Maya the only true friend is Krishna befriend him and see he's such a loving friend he will stay with you forever and ever he will not even look at your mistakes he's very loving Shri Krishna progress on God's path then you will understand this.
We will be separate from everything here nothing will go with you just see your body at one time we consider ourselves a child then youth now we're old even the body is not ours at one time it will leave us if the body is not yours then who else can be yours all the bodies will be destroyed after hearing this the Jiva's Soul takes shelter of God no one is mine there should be someone mine because we are part and part of Love Radha and Krishna are embodiment of Love.
Therefore we want love someone should love me everyone is searching for this may I find a part partner in whose lap I can rest without worries just take shelter of Radha ju's Lotus feet you'll become Carefree Chant radha radha yes laadli Ju Radha consider laadli ju yours although you don't see her but there is no one else but her every moment Laadli ju has her eyes on her dependence in laadli ju's Lotus feet.
The sudarshan chakra that Krishna has in his hand it is located as symbol on her Lotus feet countless shakti serve the Lotus feet of Laadli ju to protect to dependence all the shakties Durga, chamunda, badar kali all great energies are but from a fragment of Laadli ju a fragment if you realize such a magnanimous queen of vrindavan Laadli ju as ours you will walk around with pride and no problem will remain their heart is swelled up with a pride 'hamari Maai Shri Shyama Ju Ka raj' just accept it and if you understand.
It this fear will dissipate that whoever I loved is betraying me they're leaving even if someone wants to love there is no time here no time we are just busy with entertainment and have no time for true love and time flies by how old are you 32 years have passed and did you find peace you are still searching May someone become mine may I find happiness somewhere may I find peace somewhere similarly the future too will pass time passes and our true work is not accomplished our office is destroyed and the officer is captured and transferred you're in the planet of death mrityu Lok accomplish your true goal attain God get immersed in God's love.
Otherwise you will regret at your last moment and who knows when the last moment is that can destroy all happiness right away example if someone is given the death penalty and told tomorrow at noon you will be hung whatever you want between now and tomorrow noon will be provided to you you but then you will be hung will he enjoy anything everywhere he sees his death he keeps thinking tomorrow at noon and what enjoyment when I'm going to die.
Well he knows he will die tomorrow at noon we don't even know if he'll be here for a minute and still we are careless this is foolishness if we are not doing bhajan we don't take shelter of God then we are fools the fear of death destroyed all his happiness and we too will die his time was fixed tomorrow noon.
But we don't even know if you'll live for the next 12 seconds we don't know so one should be very alert death can come at any place any time in any form and destroy us and the workpiece were sent which is training God will be just left if you're not doing bhajan don't take God's shelter then we are fools the fear of death destroyed all his happiness and we too will die his time is fixed for tomorrow noon.
We don't even know about the next 12 seconds we don't know so one should be very alert so chant radha radha and you'll find peace and happiness. Thank You.
FAQ: How to get over the fear of losing someone's love By Premanand Ji Maharaj
Q: I'm constantly afraid of losing my loved ones due to past experiences. How can I overcome this fear?
Ans: Fear of loss stems from attachment to temporary relationships and the uncertainty of life. To overcome this fear, shift your focus towards cultivating a deeper connection with the divine. Understand that only God is eternal and unwavering, and by establishing a loving relationship with the divine, you can find solace and security beyond worldly attachments.
Q: How can I find lasting happiness amidst the transient nature of life?
Ans: True happiness lies in transcending the fleeting pleasures of the material world and discovering the eternal joy of spiritual fulfillment. By seeking refuge in the divine and surrendering to the will of God, you can experience a profound sense of peace and contentment that surpasses worldly fluctuations.
Q: Is it possible to find enduring love and companionship in the divine?
Ans: Absolutely. The divine is the embodiment of unconditional love and compassion, offering boundless companionship and support to all who seek refuge. By establishing a heartfelt connection with the divine, you can experience a profound sense of belonging and intimacy that transcends the limitations of earthly relationships.
Q: How can I overcome the fear of death and find meaning in life?
Ans: By recognizing the impermanence of worldly existence and embracing the eternal nature of the soul, you can transcend the fear of death and discover the true purpose of life. Through spiritual practices such as chanting the divine name and surrendering to the divine will, you can attain inner peace and fulfillment that transcends the fear of mortality.
Q: How can I deepen my spiritual connection and experience divine love?
Ans: Deepening your spiritual connection requires sincere devotion, self-reflection, and a commitment to spiritual growth. By immersing yourself in spiritual practices, seeking guidance from enlightened beings, and cultivating a loving relationship with the divine, you can experience the transformative power of divine love in your life.
Q: What steps can I take to overcome ignorance and find lasting fulfillment?
Ans: Overcoming ignorance involves recognizing the transient nature of worldly existence and embracing the eternal truth of the divine. By seeking refuge in the divine, cultivating self-awareness, and aligning your actions with spiritual principles, you can transcend ignorance and find lasting fulfillment in the divine presence.
